According to me receiving a tantric massage is not an act without consequences. And more specifically with a Lingam massage.
That’s why I think it would be fair to prepare yourself with full mindness by validating 6 important points before taking a decision.
The first point concerns your expectations about the massage. Is it: to quench your curiosity ? To experiment ? To have pleasure ? To satisfy a desire ? To answer a drive ? To take care of yourselves ? To be cured ? To be touched ?
2) Experience of touching
The second point concerns your experience in terms of tantric and Lingam massages. Have you ever received a tantric massage ? If yes, what kind of ? How did you feel before and after ?
What about the Lingam massage: have you ever received a Lingam massage ? If yes, how did you feel before and after ?
3) Relationship with your Lingam
The third point concerns your relationship with your Lingam. How do you feel with your Lingam ? What kind of relationship do you have ? Friendly ? Caring ? Passionate ? Non-existent ?
The fourth point concerns the kind of the therapist. Do you feel to receive the massage by a man or by a woman ? Why ?
5) Area of the Lingam
The fifth point concerns the area of Lingam. Do you accept to get all areas of your Lingam to be touched? Around, external ? If not, why?
The sixth point concerns the location of the massage. What do you prefer: in wellness center ? At home ? Or in your hotel room ?
At the end of these 6 simple questions, you will be likely to define by yourself the features of the Lingam massage session, to express them to the therapist and to decide with full mindness.
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